Homosexuality
Homosexuality is “One who is motivated, in adult life, by a definite preferential erotic attraction to members of the same sex and who usually, but not necessarily, engages in overt sexual relations with them.”
When this case is made for the legitimacy of same-sex love, critics rush in with three main defenses:
(1) It is contrary to nature.
(2) It is condemned in Scripture.
(3) Its acceptance would ruin society.
What causes homosexual desire?
If homosexual impulses are not inherited, what kinds of influences do cause strong homosexual desires? No one answer is acceptable to all researchers in the field. Important factors, however, seem to fall into four categories. As with so many other odd sexual proclivities, males appear especially susceptible:
1. Homosexual experience:
- any homosexual experience in childhood, especially if it is a first sexual experience or with an adult
- any homosexual contact with an adult, particularly with a relative.
2. Family abnormality, including the following:
- a dominant, possessive, or rejecting mother
- an absent, distant, or rejecting father
- a parent with homosexual proclivities, particularly one who molests a child of the same sex
- a sibling with homosexual tendencies, particularly one who molests a brother or sister
- divorce, which often leads to sexual problems for both the children and the adults
- parents who model unconventional sex roles
- condoning homosexuality as a legitimate lifestyle– welcoming homosexuals into the family circle
3. Unusual sexual experience, particularly in early childhood:
- precocious or excessive masturbation
- exposure to pornography in childhood
- depersonalized sex
- or girls, sexual interaction with adult males
4. Cultural influences:
- a visible and socially approved homosexual sub-culture that invites curiosity and encourages exploration
- pro-homosexual sex education
- societal and legal toleration of homosexual acts
- depictions of homosexuality as normal and/or desirable behavior
Homosexuality is a self-chosen perversion. It is not a minority.
A lot of homosexual people live highly moral and often deeply religious existences. Homosexual people are as moral and spiritual as heterosexual people are. They are honest and courageous and loving as any other people are. They also love God and seek God’s will and mercy as any heterosexual is.
Homosexual is not normal and unnatural, brings no good build a family because they will not produce children. And also have no value to seek for legitimacy to social environment. But it is important that we not judge a person because of his homosexual condition.
Overcoming homosexuality is so much more than changing behavior. With God all thing is possible. Homosexuality can be changed.
(From all book that stored in my desk)